Something to consider before you get married.
Even with the best of intentions divorce is still a risk. This tool uses known, validated risk factors from thousands of marriages across dozens of studies to estimate your divorce risk. Whenever possible I tried to avoid double counting overlapping risk factors from strong group biases, but the nature of an excercise like this is that it's not 100% perfect, so use it primarily as an educational excercise... or maybe a reality check.
Why is this different from most other divorce rate calculators? Well, most of the divorce rate calculators I've seen tend to be shorter and based on fewer studies, and because they're not custom code, they can't really do anything about overlapping risks so they tend to just ignore them, but the big thing is that they tend not to talk about risk factors that make folks uncomfortable... or maybe just aren't politically correct... I'd rather just tell you what the risks actualyly are to the best of my knowledge.
Oh also heads up... this is a pretty long survey. I tried to apply as many factors as I possibly could instead of just picking the popular ones. They're all backed up by studies and data, references on the results page. When you're done it will try to save itself to a cookie so you can look at your answers later (as long as you're on the same browser)
updates: 11/21/25, added extra context
These questions help us understand your background.
These questions are about your upbringing.
Your past and current relationship.
Finances and education.
These questions are about your habits and well-being.
These questions are about your personality and shared values.
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No one plans to get divorced, but a prenup can help in case it happens. And studies have shown it can have a slight protective effect. You can get one here.